me (25F) and my ex (24M) broke up two months ago out of nowhere and with no closure all thanks to him. It was one of those breakups where everything seemed fine then he came home one day and was just like I'm done I don’t love you anymore and I don’t see myself marrying you. We’d been together for 1 year lived together were even house hunting right before all this went down and I honestly thought we were good. Then he left without any explanation ghosted me and I haven’t heard from him since. Found out today he’s back with his ex from when he was 15-19 the same one I always had a weird feeling about. at the start of our relationship he slept with her a month before we met while she had a boyfriend and lied to me about it until he got drun and slipped up. I found out he was seen with her a couple weeks after we broke up and it hit me hard. Now I'm questioning if he was cheating and if they were talking while we were still together. I can’t wrap my head around how someone could be so cold after two years together and why he’d go back to someone he dated when he was a teenager. The fact that he moved on so fast while I’m still trying to process everything is so painful. I don’t even know what to feel anymore. Has anyone else gone through something like this?
Last updated on:2024-12-23T17:15:26+05:30
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I get it, your story hurts me too. But stop trying to figure them out. Stop texting stop calling. Just let it go and keep yourself busy. They’ve been into each other since forever, no matter the drama. they’ll end up being each other’s karma for all the lies and betrayal. Bet he was low key in touch with her the whole time anyway. He’s dodging you he doesn’t wanna deal with arguments.
His girl? Total fake shady and a cheater. And him? Straight up trash disrespectful unfaithfu and not worth it. Next time date someone who’s actually healed from their past like been single for at least six months and doesn’t stay tangled with their exes. You deserve way better. Hope you heal and bounce back stronger.
no respect for exes who know their ex is already with someone new but still try to mess things up. Like, they really think just cuz they were first they’ve got some kinda claim. Nah you’re the side chick now.
And that dude? Total loser. If he’s still into his ex let em have each other. They’re both shady so it tracks.