My bf of a year cheated on me while on vacay. we’ve had bad fights and both kinda knew it was over. But I’m stubborn and didn’t wanna give up. He’s told me multiple times to move out cuz of how loud our arguments get. But I still love him and he loves me too. I’ve brought so much negativity his way always criticizing his income and stuff even though he tried to get me to stop. I know my mistakes and tried to change... but it was like 2 weeks after he cheated. We’d always argue but the time we spent together felt real. Idk what to do. I’ve got no friends to text, no support system, so I’ve been texting him. Being solo during a breakup sucks, I just need advice. He’s always tried to understand me but I’d make small problems bigger. What should we do?
Last updated on:2025-02-10T11:11:37+05:30
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he's not your friend he cheated. time to say bye. all feelings should've been gone by now
Sorry this is a lot to take in? Are you on vacay solo? Is there really no one you can lean on? no family?
the only good thing is it might be the push you need to get out of that mess. Sounds like those years weren’t it. Once you work through the feels you can reset focus on yourself and build a support system outside of just a relationship.
I lived with him for years. Went on a solo vacay after had to move back with my parents and they’ve been nothing but critical. He was my only real friend the one I told everything to. I’m 27 now and he was the first person to ever hug me. I was single for 22 years before I met him lol. He forgave me so many times when I was being irrational and I kinda get why he cheated. But I don’t wanna forgive him. My brain’s been a mess and I just want some emotional support
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sounds like the relationship was toxic and y’all were just kinda feeding off each other. Not tryna be rude or judgey that’s just the vibe I’m getting. If you’re feeling super alone and need someone to talk to hit me up.
My brain’s been in a fog since the breakup like scary bad. I feel so out of it every day and I don’t even have insurance. I’ve got no one to talk to and every day just feels heavy. How do I even get my mind to accept that it’s really over?