Hey so me and my bf of 9 months broke up 3 days ago. Still a lot of love between us but the long distance was causing problems and we just had different love languages and needs that were hard to meet from far away. we never had an issue we couldn’t work through, except for the distance.
Last year was rough for me mentally and I had a lot hit me at once that I’m trying to fix to get back on track and feel more like myself. I leaned on him a lot for support maybe too much and he said he felt burned out and like his mental health work for the relationship wasn’t being matched.
We both hope that someday we could get back together but we’ve got some work to do on our own especially me. We still love each other and I’d take him back in a heartbeat if we can close the distance. He feels the same. In our last letters we said the door is always open and we can reach out anytime. I’m only really gonna reach out if something big happens with my mental health like getting new insurance or a therapist.
So yeah how hopeful should I really be? I loved him so much, and I really thought we were a perfect match even his flaws made him who he was. We were so similar like reflections of each other and we were best friends before anything else. I know time will probably bring us back as friends but lovers? Is that even a thing? Would love to hear thoughts from guys especially since there’s no bad blood between us at all.
Last updated on:2025-01-30T15:58:25+05:30
Comments (2)
Who ended it? Did either of you say you didn’t want the breakup? Did anyone say they wanted to try and fix things?
it was mutual but i was the one who brought up if we should break up or not we both didn’t want to we both wanted to fix things but we also knew we had already tried everything