so i just got used by someone i thought was my friend literally just for sex and idk how to move on. for 5 months he was tryna get w me but i was in a relationship so i didn’t do anything bc that’s against my morals. plus i saw him as a close friend. we’d talk all the time, he’d compliment me, we played video games together, he even got me an expensive christmas gift so i kinda warmed up to him but still didn’t cross any lines bc i was loyal to my relationship.
well my ex (m20) and i broke up a few weeks ago bc of sex issues and him not being fully committed. a few days after i started feeling better this new guy kinda opens up ab how he’s wanted something between us for a while. and me being dumb i jumped straight into it bc i hadn’t felt wanted in a long time. i trusted him, asked him multiple times if he was serious ab this and he kept reassuring me that he wanted something real.
then after we had sex a few times i started noticing he’d go all quiet the next day or send dry texts. yesterday i asked him ab it and he straight up told me he’s not ready for anything new and still misses his ex (they broke up a year ago exactly btw). he thought sex would change how he felt but obviously it didn’t.
so now i feel used asf and idk how to deal w this. my body feels icky and something about this whole thing doesn’t sit right. like i know his ex hit up his mom for a recipe a month ago and suddenly on monday his whole vibe switched. then i saw on snap maps he was in some random apartment even tho his car was broken down and he never goes anywhere. so i deadass feel like his ex came back and he’s dumb enough to take her back after she cheated on him twice.
also my friend went to his place to grab my jewelry i left there and he told her he didn’t think it was that serious like ??? even tho i literally asked him multiple times if he wanted something real or just my body
so how do i move on bc i actually cared about him as a friend and thought he could be something long-term. how do i shake this gross feeling and stop feeling like i was just used
this guy (m20) spent 5 months tryna get w me and when i finally gave him a chance he switched up bc he’s still not over his ex. i feel like she came back bc his whole vibe changed overnight and he was randomly at some place he never goes to on snap maps. now i just feel used and sick ab it.
Last updated on:2025-02-07T13:03:13+05:30
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Girl that's messed up. He totally used you.