Do you ever think about your ex the one you messed up with from the start? She wanted something real but your actions didn’t line up… or was she just a rebound?
I’m actually so heartbroken cuz this happened to me and I need a guy’s perspective. Like why lead someone on if you’re not even healed?
We haven’t talked since the breakup but I still miss him so bad.
Last updated on:2025-02-12T17:31:07+05:30
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Every situation’s different I can’t speak for your ex but that sucks fr
I got into a relationship before I was fully healed not cuz I wanted to use her or lead her on but cuz I legit didn’t realize how unhealthy I was I thought I was good but I wasn’t I needed way more healing than I knew and by the time I figured it out it was too late I was in a dark place grieving a lot then this amazing girl showed up and I didn’t wanna miss my chance but I fumbled it bad and I still regret it even now a year and a half later the breakup’s lasted longer than we even dated
was just playing you the sooner you stop seeing through rose colored glasses the better
Not everyone can fully heal after a heartbreak fr. Sometimes the love was too deep or the breakup just hit too hard.
I know this might be a hot take, but even if we don’t feel 100% healed we still got love to give to the right person. We miss being loved too. Yeah no one might ever measure up, but what if someone actually does? What if they bring back that spark? We won’t know unless we give it a shot.
Thing is dating is always a risk. But expecting people who’ve been hurt and never fully moved on to just avoid relationships forever? That’s not really how life works.