It’s been 4 years since the person I loved with everything I had left me

It’s been 4 years since the person I loved with everything I had left me. Time’s moving but it still feels like I’m stuck in 2021. She brought happiness and hope into my life for the first time. Before her I didn’t even know what happiness felt like I was always that sad, depressed kid. Now that she’s gone I’m lost again. Back to feeling down all the time but this time I’ve got no social life no career no dreams.
I know losing everything over one person sounds wild but that’s just how it feels. In trying to find her I kinda lost myself. It sucks that I still somehow love her or maybe just the idea of her.

Last updated on:2025-02-20T15:04:36+05:30

Comments (7)

KingsRule
KingsRule 1 y ago

You'll find your way again. Just keep going.

Bumeen10
Bumeen10 1 y ago

Time is a weird thing. It'll get better eventually.

Funkymind
Funkymind 1 y ago

Small steps. One day at a time.

Halfbad
Halfbad 1 y ago

Sending virtual hugs. Hope you're doing okay.

Carefinder
Carefinder 1 y ago

Big oof. That's rough buddy.

Aquagurl11
Aquagurl11 1 y ago

It didn’t even last long but he was the only person I’ve ever felt purpose love and real happiness with. Didn’t even know I could feel like this. I still love him with every breath. Everything still hurts like those first few months. Sorry we’re going through this mate.

TinyWrestler

I totally feel this. I was in the same place anxious and kinda stuck before I met her. She didn’t fix me no one can but she brought love and purpose into my life when I didn’t even think it was possible.
It’s been two years since we split and honestly I don’t have much faith that in two more years I won’t still be here missing someone I loved more than anything.