I’m the only one still stuck on our breakup like all the memories and everything

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I’m the only one still stuck on our breakup like all the memories and everything. He’s over it I can tell. How’d you say you loved me first just to fall out of love first too? I kinda wish he never said he loved me wish we never met. It feels like I’m getting over him but then I remember everything and it hits all over again. Everyone’s like move on you can do better but I wanted it to be him. I always told myself I’d stick with one guy and now I wish I hadn’t picked the wrong one cause now I’m left feeling like this.

Last updated on:2025-03-07T13:25:05+05:30

Comments (18)

Cerekio
Cerekio 12 mths ago

I also gave my all to one person... and still can’t let it go

Beautyqueen1
Beautyqueen1 12 mths ago

hope we both move on someday and find someone who actually loves us

Cerekio
Cerekio 12 mths ago

@Beautyqueen1 I can’t. I’ll never love anyone like I love him. he’s my whole world. I’d rather be single.

Sharpmind
Sharpmind 12 mths ago

I feel the same way lol. dude really did me dirty all I wanted was an apology and for him to try and fix things but I’m still the one hurt while he’s moved on :) I got you if you need to talk!

NarachiMov
NarachiMov 12 mths ago

I wanna share some advice that helped me a little. I’m going through a breakup too and honestly it's been getting worse the past month. But here’s the thing everything happens for a reason. Keep that in your head trust me it’s true.
I know you’re probably reading this thinking it’s just some bs and not helping but for real you’re actually super lucky you got dumped and didn’t have to deal with more drama. I know it feels mad lonely right now and probably makes it worse reading this but trust me you’ll find someone who’ll love you way more. Heck I’d even say the people replying here care about you enough to take the time. But the person you’ll end up with is gonna be so much better and you’ll look back and wonder how you were ever hurt by your ex once you meet someone like that. Don’t lose hope, even if it’s tough right now. I’ve been there and it always gets better. 🙂 always.

Melanochy
Melanochy 12 mths ago

He never said he loved me but everything he did made me fall for him. Now I kinda wish I never met him. I get how bad it feels. And now I’m just thinking was I really that bad to be with that he could drop me like I didn’t matter? Like all those moments we shared laughing letting me cry on his shoulder that sweet slow dance to All of Me by John Legend those times we snuck away to be alone... teaching me what it feels like to sleep in his arms when I’ve never slept with a man before was all that just nothing? I feel so dumb and unlovable. He really messed me up. 😭😭😭

Trickybody
Trickybody 12 mths ago

Same😔. He said he loved me till the end but his excuse was he had his own stuff to deal with and couldn't be what I needed 😅

radiantchic
radiantchic 12 mths ago

I wish someone actually meant it when they said that to me. Good luck OP I’m hoping the best for you.

Jadie268
Jadie268 12 mths ago

Agh this is so tough OP. I totally get you ❤️‍🩹

JJoycee420
JJoycee420 12 mths ago

This is how I’m feeling deep down

masarapdaw
masarapdaw 12 mths ago

I got dumped a bunch of times before finding the right one. Guys will say anything to play with your head or they’ll feel love but get scared and dip. Avoidant behavior is pretty common tbh. You gotta find someone who's actually looking for a R E L A T I O N S H I P. Most guys aren't really ready for that till they grow up a little.

Beautyqueen1
Beautyqueen1 12 mths ago

He was older and seemed more mature but I guess age didn’t really mean much.

NoluckBeb
NoluckBeb 12 mths ago

I gave it all and still lost

Beautyqueen1
Beautyqueen1 12 mths ago

Fr can't believe I gave it my all and dedicated myself like that.

NoluckBeb
NoluckBeb 12 mths ago

@Beautyqueen1 I'm so sorry I'm hurting too. Hit me up if you need someone to talk to.

Humanheart
Humanheart 12 mths ago

Sameee you’re not alone. I really believe if everyone’s going through the same feels it’s not just you it’s like a human thing ya know?

Beautyqueen1
Beautyqueen1 12 mths ago

Sorry you get it and thanks I feel a bit less alone now

Humanheart
Humanheart 12 mths ago

@Beautyqueen1 Sending good vibes to all of us hope we get outta this dark place soon!