i'm immature and just can't see myself committing fr for a bunch of reasons that don’t even matter i just don’t feel it. i love her sm and she loves me endlessly but as of yesterday we're done. it hurts bad. the worst part? i know i could get her back easy but i was hurting her too much and we both knew this couldn’t keep going. if i got her back i’d prob take her for granted again and i can't do that to her. i know i’d start looking at other girls again and wishing i had more freedom. i’m not here for sympathy i know i’m the bad guy in this. i know i’m pathetic. i'm just asking the guys who were once like me when did you finally grow up? what am i even supposed to do? i found a rare gem of a woman and there's still a chance i could have her again but i’m just not emotionally ready to commit. i don’t have what it takes to really value her love. for the guys who lost someone like this… did you ever find someone else? or do you still think about her?
Last updated on:2025-03-27T17:55:20+05:30
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bh in the world
You’re not alone a lot of dudes go through this.
That what if is gonna haunt you if you don't change.
You’ll either learn or you’ll keep repeating this.
You’re not pathetic just… figuring it out slowly
Immature is a stage not a sentence. You can change.
Sometimes letting go is the realest love. Even if it hurts.
Freedom vs. Regret choose your fighter.
Real talk self-awareness is a start. At least you know your vibe.
I lost a girl cause I was in a bad place mentally. Do I regret losing her? Not really today but what I do regret is how I treated her. I wish I had the strength back then to tell her I was hurting and that she didn’t deserve the pain I put her through just cause I was still messed up over my ex. So yeah if you want your freedom that’s cool but just make sure the people walking with you are on the same page.