Been broken up with my ex (29F) for like six months now. We still kept in touch talked hung out even hooked up. She’d go back and forth one minute wanting to talk the next cutting me off—but we always ended up reconnecting.
Then like three weeks ago she just flipped. Got super distant and cold started ignoring my texts and calls and when she did respond she was lowkey pissed for no reason. Suddenly I’m “annoying” just for calling even though we used to talk all the time. It’s like she woke up one day and decided she hated me.
Yesterday I went to drop off some of her stuff and she straight-up wouldn’t even look at me. That hurt more than anything. After that I tried reaching out on different platforms just to get some kind of clarity but she ignored me completely… then blocked me on everything.
Idk what to do. I feel lost hopeless. I just want my best friend back but she acts like I don’t exist. Has anyone been through this? What do I even do? I just want her back but it’s like she disappeared. Sitting in this pain and anxiety sucks and not even getting an explanation makes it 10x worse. I did everything for that girl. Idk if she’s seeing someone else or what but damn this hurts.
Last updated on:2025-03-25T17:54:48+05:30
Comments (16)
Trust me my friend you are the winner in this You guys were already broken up but sometimes we are unable to take that decision and in that case nothing is more helpful than a No contact.A hard No contact and effort to move on in Life is all what it takes.
y'all didn’t really stick to the breakup fr so now the pain just keeps dragging 😞
but hey good news you can start today gotta let your heart heal it’s gonna suck tho trust me I’m in the middle of it rn
looks like she found someone new im really sorry she probably sees potential in them so she feels like she gotta cut you off completely to not mess things up im really sorry
If they block you you won.
yo this one's on you for not taking control of your own situation.. when y'all break up you gotta actually be broken up. you just waited around for her like a lost puppy while she hit you up whenever she felt like it. you gotta have more self respect fr. now she fully cut you off and it feels like another breakup all over again. but tbh you let yourself be in the background this whole time so this was bound to happen
Thank you I needed to hear that
Idk why ppl are downvoting u tbh. This is lowkey on him, and the sooner he gets that, the faster the whole “I’m not in control of my life” thing falls apart. If he learns from this, it won’t happen again
@Jemeslover Not tryna be rude but gotta keep it real… never wait around for anyone you deserve better than that
kinda wish my ex stayed in touch n hooked up w me she dipped months ago like she couldn't leave fast enough even tho all I ever did was love her never treated her bad or anything she moved on asap n acts like I’m invisible
Went through pretty much the same thing. I was the one reaching out most of the time but she’d still reply fast and show love for like months after we broke up. Kept saying stuff like I wanna be with you but I can’t life scks without you I miss and love you too
Then outta nowhere something switched up. Her replies got shorter took way longer and she said she turned off my notifs
Bruh it lowkey feels like we dealt with the same person 😂
@Jemeslover fr fr just let go of the whole closure thing u said u want clarity but tbh nothing they say will actually make u feel better u’ll still be stuck on the but why and overthinking everything and odds are their reasons will be weak as hell which will just stress u out more
@danthean Did you go no contact? If yeah how long's it been
Just dip bro start fresh and see what happens ngl sounds like she struggled to move on but finally did it
Easier said than done fr when you're emotionally in it letting go ain't that simple this advice only hits when you're on the outside or not the one going through it
@Sharpmind Matters of the heart are never simple