do you ever feel like you are just trying your up most best and then they know you are putting effort so they are manipulating you and your know they are but you just can't let them go? the memories their Cologne their everything you did with them in every place comes to your head and you just begin to cry..
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Oh gawd yes, they manipulate and use that, they really believe you're not going anywhere
Oh gawd yes, they manipulate and use that, they really believe you're not going anywhere
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Literally yes I used to sit in his car seat even after he left just to feel close again. I knew he was playing mind games but a part of me still held on bcause the memories felt safer than the silence.
In my case I knew he was using me deep down. But hed say just enough sweet things to make me stay. And I clung onto crumbs like they were cake. Thats how badly I wanted to feel loved.
HMMM He knew I’d always be there. That’s what hurt the most. I kept tryin to be enough while he just watched me unravel. I wanted love. He wanted control.
The worst part? Knowing they’re manipulating you and still craving that fake comfort. I used to replay the good moments like reruns just to forget how badly it ended. I wasn’t dumb I was just in love.😴
Yo There was this one coffee shop we always went to… I still cant go back. Not because I miss him but cause the ghost of us still sits at that table. It’s wild how places hold pain.
yeah i remember crying over his hoodie that still smelled like his cologne. Fuly aware he was never serious about me. But I stayed. Not for him but for the version of us that only existed in my head.
It sounds painful to be pouring your heart into a relationship only to feel manipulated especially when you know it's happening but can't break free. Remember recognizing this manipulation is a huge step and your genuine effort is a testament to your loving nature not a flaw.
yes i do know what you are talking about and with my ex... for a very long time i thought i was the one who was the one with problems till i started to see that no matter what i did they were always going to find faults but the cushion that they gave was so deep and for me it wa financial as well and that just made everything way more tougher but finally i had to just move on because i had become a doormat and my sister pointed that out to me and that stung and thats how i started to break away from them.