it's been 20 days so far since the last time he reached out

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it's been 20 days so far since the last time he reached out. it wasn't too bad until day 17 where all I'm doing is crying hoping he would reach out again. I want to reach out but since he set the boundary not to reach out but he will. I have to respect it. does it get easier? now with the holiday and anniversary I'm just a mess.

Last updated on:2025-07-01T01:47:02+05:30

Comments (11)

Tiedie
Tiedie 9 mths ago

This part is heavy I won’t pretend it’s not. But you’re doing something incredibly brave by choosing stillness over a temporary fix. Stay with your strength.

rough254
rough254 9 mths ago

Moments like this? They test everything but you’re still here honoring both your emotions and his space. That’s something to be proud of.

sweetpatato
sweetpatato 9 mths ago

I hear you deeply. Respecting someone’s boundary while your heart breaks is one of the most painful forms of love.

KGrant
KGrant 9 mths ago

Your strength is so admirable you’re honoring his boundary even when your heart aches. That’s not weakness that’s courage. The pain won’t last forever and every tear is part of your healing.

RazzTap
RazzTap 9 mths ago

he told me he can't be in a relationship cuz he's working on himself yet he has his damn hoe he still always go get high with but he still came here with her and can't find time for me on probation officers are trying to keep us apart everything is trying to keep it apart I feel like if the probation didn't tell him that we can be ready end it the treatment center didn't tell us that we need to start fresh that was going to be together I'm hurting sad and alone that sucks

JoyfulN618
JoyfulN618 9 mths ago

wanna talk about it ? at this moment I hope all is well stranger

mymy2004
mymy2004 9 mths ago

how are u today

mymy2004
mymy2004 9 mths ago

how are u today

mymy2004
mymy2004 9 mths ago

hey

mymy2004
mymy2004 9 mths ago

hey

mymy2004
mymy2004 9 mths ago

hey