The last time I saw him was too painful. I was the one who suggested meeting up, and he agreed because he said he wanted to give me my birthday gift (he had broken up with me days before, even though I begged him not to do it at least before that date). It was simply painful; his attitude was 100% distant. In the end, we just argued because after seeing how he was treating me, I didn't want the gift anymore, and he insisted that he wanted me to have it because he had bought it for me. In the end, my feelings got the worst of me, and I ended up crying. He just got annoyed and left. I called him crying, asking him to come back so we could talk, and he returned but only gave me the gift without getting out of the car. Even though I was standing in the street with the sun hitting directly on me, and I asked him to get out at least to talk to me, he just said, "No, I don't have time, talk." And there I was, crying, standing alone in front of him, while he watched me from his car. Just for him to end up saying that he doesn't love me anymore, that I should understand. I'm deeply hurt, and I don't know what to do because as much as I want to hate him, I can't think of anything else but him, and I want him back. But not the version I saw at the end, but my partner, my wonderful guy who I'm sure would be so ashamed of how he's treating me. I've gone 4 days without talking to him, and I don't know how to move forward with this.
Last updated on:2025-07-12T04:31:02+05:30
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You’re doing so well by going 4 days without contact. It’s not easy but it’s the first step toward healing.
I know it’s hard to stop thinking about him but his actions show he’s not the same person you fell in love with.
It’s okay to feel this way it’s so hard to move on when you still care. But remember you deserve someone who values you fully.
You’re holding onto the version of him you loved but his actions now show he’s not that person anymore.
This sounds so painful and I can feel how much you’re hurting.
girl, remember you deserve more than this. If he can't afford the bare minimum (i mean talking), then leave. You are so kind and he does not deserve it. real men don't act like that. Keep yourself busy by learning new language, hang out with friends, feel the nature, upgrade yourself into a woman that he can't reach anymore. there are more than 8 billion ppl in the world and there is your future husband. believe me, god removed him from your life bc he knew that this man could make you feel worst. and keep hoping, believe in god, he has a better plan for you. He will bring the better one for you in the future❤️