How do you deal with the urge to talk to them? Today I miss him so much. I start thinking about everything, and the last things he said to me come to mind, and my heart feels so heavy. I don’t know how I can love myself so little that, even after someone has told me, “I don’t love you anymore, I don’t want to be with you,” “I don’t like the way you are,” “I don’t see you in my future,” “I have nothing left for you,” I still love him—so much. Honestly, if he came up to me or if I ran into him, the only thing I’d want to do is hug him, just cry and hug him, tell him that I love him and that I forgive him.
Last updated on:2025-07-16T04:59:02+05:30
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It’s okay to want to hug him and cry it shows how much you cared. But don’t forget to care for yourself too
You’re so strong for acknowledging your feelings. It’s hard but you deserve someone who sees your worth
writing my journal. you can still talk with him without send a message to him:)
Just remember that loving yourself is the most important thing right now.
distract yourself, go out, call friends, do something you enjoy and keep yourself busy. i’ve been doing that, two weeks later i’m starting to feel myself get back up again. i hope it goes that way for you too
Missing someone who hurt you is so tough
It’s so hard to fight that urge especially when you still care so much. Just take it one moment at a time
I find that my constant anger with him for ending the relationship keeps me from wanting to talk to him. It's been 21 days for me.
I feel the exact same way. 16 days for me. literally the last conversation we had makes me keep my promise of not contacting him. I wonder if he will eventually give in and text me first
I definitely understand where your coming from. I’ve been in my relationship for 5years we just broke up maybe 3weeks ago. she finally tells me she doesn’t want to be with me anymore. I’m so hurt