After almost 11 years with a man I walked away. He made me feel like I was never enough. I gave and gave and gave. He never cared enough to tell me I was pretty or that he cared for me. I went through so much with this man. Now my problem is I am started to feel so down on myself. I feel like maybe I am the problem. Maybe I will never be loved, chosen, or be anyone's priority. I really don't feel like I will ever be good enough for anyone. This is so hard. People tell me all the time "A man would be lucky to find a woman like you" Why does it feel like its pitty talk. Just saying it to make me feel better. Idk I have a lot of self doubt. I just wish I could feel as if I could let him go. When I say that I mean let go of the mental bs he has planted in my head.
Last updated on:2025-07-17T04:35:03+05:30
Comments (6)
It’s not pity talk it’s the truth. A man really would be lucky to have you. Don’t let his lack of care make you doubt your worth
Letting go of the mental stuff is so hard but you’re already doing the work by recognizing it. Be patient with yourself you’re healing
You gave so much of yourself it’s not your fault he didn’t appreciate it. You’re more than enough even if it doesn’t feel like it right now
It’s so hard to unlearn the things someone made you feel but you’re already taking the first step by walking away.
Walking away after 11 years takes so much strength. You’re not the problem he just didn’t see your worth and that’s on him not you
11 years is a long time and the letting go is going to take time. If this person has caused ypu to question ypur worth then its a whole new challenge which is to work on your confidence. You have to know that he or no one else defines or validates you. You are a strong beautiful loving individual. And we are here for you.