how do i heal from someone who was my first ? i love him with everything in me & i don't think i'll be able to be happy without him , how do i move on ? whenever i'm alone i never cry but i just think of him...its been 10 days since we last spoke , since i last cut contact with him & i feel like texting him , i still have his numbers , i don't know if i should block him or delete his numbers or just maybe let him see what i post everyday ? & truth be told , most of the things i post is for him , whenever he doesn't view my statuses my heart breaks into pieces , the last time we spoke , guy said he still loves me & he said he would try to be the person that i've always wanted him to be , but i didn't wanna believe him again because he never did that when i gave him a million chances...he never dared to change , but i don't know this time it felt so real , he even mentioned somethings that i was still shocked of...i don't know guys , i'm afraid to move on not only because i don't know how to but also because of i don't think i'll ever love anyone like i loved him...so guys please just give me tips on how to heal & move on .💔😞
Last updated on:2025-07-19T05:14:02+05:30
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I know it feels impossible now but you’ll heal
if he really wanted to change he would’ve done it already. Don’t let him waste more of your time
don’t let him keep you stuck. He’s had his chances now it’s time for you to glow up.
he had a million chances and fumbled every one. Don’t let him play with your heart again
don’t text him. Block delete and focus on YOU. You deserve peace
I think you should delete anything that you have of him, block his number, throw out anything he gave you (or keep it somewhere far away where you can't find it or see it) and delete any pictures you have him. I recommend trying to find your true self and who you are inside and just basically trying to gain any confidence back, the same stuff happened with my boyfriend (who was REALLY bad) and I'm steal healing from it but this is what mostly has helped me.
remove anything from your room which makes you think about him and place it in a box. Seal the box and write a letter to yourself, put it away under your bed and in a few months open it. I was told this and I'm only 6 days into no contact, it hurts but apparently in a few months those memories will be happy and you won't feel sad x
thank you so much .
i'll try .
sab thik ho skta h toh krlo... jyada wqt doge toh phele jesa kch thik nhi ho payega... move on krne se acha thik krlena h ... ye breakup wgrh m kisi ek ki life aise khrab hoti h wo kch nhi kr pata ... usko mrna aasan lgne lgta h
but the problem is , i was actually the only one who reached out most of the times & on the times we broke up , so is that man worth fighting for ?