how do i get over a girl who dumped me not because she didnt want me or love me

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how do i get over a girl who dumped me not because she didnt want me or love me, but her family didnt approve of me

Last updated on:2025-07-22T12:12:27+05:30

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tessy012
tessy012 8 mths ago

t’s not your fault. Her family’s approval doesn’t define your value. You’ll find someone who’ll love you without conditions

Dreamer6
Dreamer6 8 mths ago

thank you

brainless
brainless 8 mths ago

it’s giving wrong timing right person vibes. But don’t let this break you. Focus on yourself you’ll find your person

Dreamer6
Dreamer6 8 mths ago

Thanks ! i decided to go no contact with her with the intention of getting over her

Somanna
Somanna 8 mths ago

It’s not about you it’s about their mindset. Heal grow and find someone who’ll choose you every time

Dreamer6
Dreamer6 8 mths ago

i need to find someone like that. But in the south asian community, its harder said then done

KGrant
KGrant 8 mths ago

that’s tough. But remember her family’s opinion doesn’t define your worth. You deserve someone who’ll fight for you no matter what

Dreamer6
Dreamer6 8 mths ago

i agree!

XYZ123456
XYZ123456 8 mths ago

his parents did not approve of me too. we broke up 21 days ago, no contact. stay strong, work on yourself and heal. If it's meant to be it will be!

Dreamer6
Dreamer6 8 mths ago

why didnt they approve of you?

XYZ123456
XYZ123456 8 mths ago

@Dreamer6 the same religion/caste drama. what about you?

Dreamer6
Dreamer6 8 mths ago

@XYZ123456 Age and the way i look it seems

Dreamer6
Dreamer6 8 mths ago

@XYZ123456 are you Indian?

XYZ123456
XYZ123456 8 mths ago

@Dreamer6 yes! we're probably the only people who really encounter this caste and religion issue

Dreamer6
Dreamer6 8 mths ago

@XYZ123456 how did you get over it?

XYZ123456
XYZ123456 8 mths ago

@Dreamer6 I'm not over it. I'm just trying to distract myself with work and other things. You should do the same. I keep reminding myself that whatever's meant for me will find me, and that I don't have to chase it or force it to happen

PancakeSmash
PancakeSmash 8 mths ago

by accepting for what happens and always keep your mind in reality. If u still keep rs with this person, it will be like hell bcz family doesn't approve. And i sure as hell will not be in one where the in-laws did not approve of me.

how to get over:
1. cut off all contact
2. go to the gym, replace pain with gains
3. go to places where y'all always hang, drink her fav stuffs or food, this will go cycle again and again until u dont feel like anything
4. go with the flow.

Dreamer6
Dreamer6 8 mths ago

Thank you! Its best if i cut off all contact for sure