I messed up i talked to her I was 7 days no contact I couldn't take the pain I asked her for a hug and she came to my car and hugged me and told me all about her weekend and I just cried and hugged her. she said she doesnt love me the way I do anymore but she still loves me. God this hurts so much worse why did I do that
Last updated on:2025-07-24T01:52:02+05:30
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You’re hurting you just wanted comfort. It’s okay to cry and feel the pain but don’t lose sight of your worth
don’t be too hard on yourself. You’re just trying to cope that’s valid. It’s okay to feel all the feels right now
You needed that moment to process your feelings. It hurts now but you’ll get through this
That must’ve been so hard but don’t beat yourself up. You’re human
I know how it feels to break the no contact rule. I once did and it destroyed my mental health completely. I told myself I shouldnt have done that because its better not to know anything. But you know what everything happens for a reason. Just feel all the pain now and tommorow will be all right. You dont have to rush things because healing is not a straight path. Just focus on yourself and on the positive things. We are all in this together
I cant stop crying. I regret it so much if I didnt talk to her the pain wouldn't be nearly as bad as it is right now. This is worse than when she broke up with me. It hurts so so so much
Same with me. I cried for weeks after breaking the no contact rule. I just focused on myself and started accepting things the way they are. I know its hard but try not to destroy yourself on things you can't control.
@ByteFlex53 after crying for hours, I'm feeling better and in a weird way glad that it all happened. the hug was nice and gave me that loving feeling and I'll cherish that. sure I fell but I gotta pick myself up and move forward. Day 1 starts now🙏