Hey guys, my gf broke up with me bc she said she lost feelings because of her avoidant attachment. It hurts so bad bc two days before the breakup she was telling me how much i mean to her how happy i make her how much she loves me etc. But i wasnt aware of her avoidant issue i didnt see an avoidant behaviour before and i think she just told me this to not feel bad. I want her back but she doesn't feel the same anymore even though she wanted it first. What should i do, i want her back
Last updated on:2025-07-26T07:12:56+05:30
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yo i chased someone avoidant for a year. i kept thinking if i just love harder they’ll stay. they didn’t. and it wrecked me. please take care of your heart. i know that ache.
Is there any chance of her coming back? I havent spoke to her for 3 months. Will she come back if i go with another person? What should i do for her to come back
i went through something so similar. it’s like they open up just enough to keep you close, then vanish when it gets real. that shit leaves a mark.
this hurt to read. the whiplash of you mean so much to me to i don’t feel the same” is BRUTAL. i remember staring at old messages like… was any of it real? you’re not crazy for wanting her back. but damn that kind of emotional switch messes with your head.
How do i make her come back
you should work on yourself as hard as it is! Remeber that you did the best you could at the end of the day and to let yourself be at peace!
yes lately i am working so hard on myself but i still want herrrr backkk. Should i go with another person??? What should i do except from working on myself and forget her.
@QuinFlake48 don’t worry about finding somone new i would start to put all that energy into urself and then when the time is right somone will come to you!