Im so hurt to be honest he has called me fake and

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Im so hurt to be honest he has called me fake and other names i love him with all my heart and i cant bare to leave him but by lovijg him im losing myself

Last updated on:2025-08-07T07:38:02+05:30

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Vimandioa
Vimandioa 7 mths ago

sometimes the names hurt less than how normal they start to feel. like you’re trying to convince yourself it’s not that bad.

jacknick
jacknick 7 mths ago

i remember that split feeling. loving someone and watching it eat me alive. it’s ok if you’re not ready to go yet.

VegaLoop15
VegaLoop15 7 mths ago

staying is so painful, leaving is unthinkable. we become so disregulated by the persons actions and co dependent. it’s a tough situation to be in. I’m in a similar space and it’s heartbreaking. I ask myself similar question.

prettysoul
prettysoul 7 mths ago

like he tells me im not the samed and i used to do everything for him hes a bit right tho but i changet bc i got tired how i was getting treated

VegaLoop15
VegaLoop15 7 mths ago

@prettysoul I’m sorry to say I hate this. why do we as women have to do everything for the man? shouldn’t a relationship be a give and take? I would have to do everything for my partner while he laid on the sofa on his phone or talk to friends. it felt really lonely. on top of that he would wake me up at 5 am to make him sandwiches and snacks for the day. we are all adults, no one is responsible for anyone else. one thing is to share and compromise, but to
be responsible for doing as an obligation is not okay.

prettysoul
prettysoul 7 mths ago

@VegaLoop15 for real it feels like there is only one person in the relationship

adiyen03
adiyen03 7 mths ago

Mine used to call me a slut though I never once even on the level of mind thought about any other guy. I stayed around too. Hoping to prove myself and he would love me the same again. Nope, spent 1 and half years crying back to back and losing myself. I feel you. ⛅️

Jassadeve
Jassadeve 7 mths ago

mine used to call me selfish anytime i cried. i stayed. thought love meant proving him wrong. it didn’t. it meant losing me.

adiyen03
adiyen03 7 mths ago

dismissing emotions while we cry is the sickest part. like we don’t want to sit and keep crying either, dude.. like really 🙃. I feel you ⛅️