he only got with me to make my ex jealous

reads like he wasn’t really with you, more with the idea of proving something to someone else. that leaves you carrying feelings he never planned to hold.

that happened to me once, i remember feeling so small like i didn’t matter at all. it took me a while to remind myself i was more than the role he put me in.

yeah i had that too. felt like trash when i realized i was just the rebound. like i was a prop in some dumb game. it messed with my head for a long time.

u move on by valuing yourself, by being expensive ( not in terms of money) but in terms of respect, kindness. be kind and be helpful, but do not let. people. step. on. you.

i will never tolerate ppl who used me to pass the time, and that was my ex. She, is spiritually dead to me, the girl i fell in love for, fought for, travel to meet for. She is already dead, her now is just a shell of her past. i will never ever tolerate disrespect, tho i am fragile and emotional, i will not let ppl step on me. i cut her off in all, its my day 46. never handle the disrespect thst he gave you, virtually slap him with what he did, by going ghost, let him regret and find you. but there will nowhere for u to be found, expect your glimpse and shadow that will haunt him in the future. The same way i will haunt her in the future. the best revenge is shutting up, and going ghosts, no rebounds etc. Let them seek for you, and never accept their regrets. forgive but dont forget.