hey guys, tomorrow I'll be back in our dorm because I'll get my other things, I'm thinking of seeing him and hugging him for one last time, he ended things with me already, should I do that? shouldn I hug him for one last time? As of now I am still confused, are this decision of mine going to other dorm is the right thing? or not
Last updated on:2025-08-19T21:08:02+05:30
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you’re torn between wanting closure and not wanting to hurt more. going to the dorm is already happening, the hug is just the part you’re unsure about.
we already have our closure, it's just that my clothes are still there, and i needed it because I'm still a student
i remember wanting the same thing, like maybe the hug would make me feel close just one more time. it didn’t fix anything, but i don’t regret it either. it was just a small goodbye for me.
no you shouldn't. it'll just take you back to the starting point of your healing journey
i did that once, hugged my ex one last time. it felt good for like 2 seconds then i walked out feeling like i ripped the wound back open. i hated myself for giving him that moment when he already chose to end it.