He broke up with me last Tuesday with a text message

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He broke up with me last Tuesday with a text message. Yesterday I asked him if he could talk to me in person about it and he said he was confused and needed some time. I need answers.

Last updated on:2025-08-23T21:42:18+05:30

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Jmkin
Jmkin 6 mths ago

like you reached out wanting closure and he gave you a pause instead. that pause can feel worse than the breakup itself.

NovaBeat663
NovaBeat663 6 mths ago

You believe that one day he will talk to me? and give me the closure I asked for?

farawayme
farawayme 6 mths ago

i remember begging my ex to just talk face to face. he kept dodging and saying he wasn’t sure what he wanted. it hurt because i thought if he could just explain, i’d feel better. i never got the answers i hoped for.

NovaBeat663
NovaBeat663 6 mths ago

I’m sorry to hear that. Now I don’t know if I have the same hope as today’s morning. Maybe he will never explain to me. That hurts

catwasakii
catwasakii 6 mths ago

dont chase, dont beg, let him do what he needs. even leave him alone for a week set a goal of im not gonna message him for x days. because unfortunately the tighter you squeeze the less you have

NovaBeat663
NovaBeat663 6 mths ago

Thanks for the advice, I will follow it
Hope he text me again and thank the thinks in person
But for now, I’m going to set myself this goal

catylove
catylove 6 mths ago

i got dumped in a text too. sat there staring at my phone like that was all i was worth. later he said he was "confused" too. it just dragged out and nothing real ever came from it.

NovaBeat663
NovaBeat663 6 mths ago

Yeah, I thought the same, did I worth just a little to you to be treated like that?
Did you continue being friends or you don't talk anymore? bc he said eventually we could be friends, that he just "needs a little of time"