i hang out with my friends to forget her

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i hang out with my friends to forget her. but when i'm on my way home i started crying because i remember her and the memories we had in certain place

Last updated on:2025-08-26T07:20:05+05:30

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sizzumon
sizzumon 6 mths ago

what you said reminds me of how it works. distraction holds for a while, but silence brings back the details you didn’t want to remember. that’s when the crying shows up.

Swathope
Swathope 6 mths ago

i’d be fine with people then alone and it all rushed in. it felt unfair, like my heart waited for quiet to break down.

yearningwei
yearningwei 6 mths ago

especially if places holds memories:(

Thiskris92
Thiskris92 6 mths ago

trigger places, those really suck. i have a hard time leaving the house for that same reason so the fact that your going out and being social, creating new memories, your already a step ahead !

yearningwei
yearningwei 6 mths ago

oh really? thank you so much this made me feel better:(

Thiskris92
Thiskris92 6 mths ago

@yearningwei i cant watch certain movies if weve seen it together, certain places in my house for some reason gives me those triggers but the more you go through them, the stronger you get. its like grieving. it doesn't get easier but you get stronger.

Jassadeve
Jassadeve 6 mths ago

i used to hate bus rides home cuz that’s when it hit me. laughing with friends then bam, sitting alone and everything we did together just replayed. made me feel like i was losing my mind.

yearningwei
yearningwei 6 mths ago

i'm with you :( how are you feeling now? i hope next time we fall in love with someone they won't hurt us like this again. you girl, deserve all the love in this world. you are as beautiful as your heart. keep going. see you at the finish line 🏁🤍