you’re sitting in that space where the thought of reaching out feels easier than the silence. i’ve seen people break their own no contact just to feel close again, even for a minute.
i used to open my chats and just stare at his name. wanting so bad to say something. sometimes i’d type it all out and delete. it’s okay if your chest feels loud right now.
Been there, ended up getting blocked when I messaged her. Do your best not to, try to occupy your mind with other things. You might get the answer you do not wish to hear and will mess up your healing for a while. Be kind to yourself :)
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you’re sitting in that space where the thought of reaching out feels easier than the silence. i’ve seen people break their own no contact just to feel close again, even for a minute.
i used to open my chats and just stare at his name. wanting so bad to say something. sometimes i’d type it all out and delete. it’s okay if your chest feels loud right now.
i remember that itch. i texted my ex at 2am once, just one line, and the regret ate me alive. felt like handing her the power to hurt me again.
oh. this hit me hard
Been there, ended up getting blocked when I messaged her. Do your best not to, try to occupy your mind with other things. You might get the answer you do not wish to hear and will mess up your healing for a while. Be kind to yourself :)
what would you say? maybe write what you would say here and not to her?
i would just tell her i miss her and i'm waiting for her to comeback😅
@yearningwei that’s okay wait for her to want to come back, I know it’s hard but you deserve someone who wants to be with you
@FrostSpin69 you're right. if she still wants to be with me then she will. it's just 5 days ago before we broke up
@yearningwei your also allowed to miss her nothing wrong with feeling that☺️ that’s okay too
@yearningwei just don’t let it control your actions
don’t message her. you both need to heal give it time.
thanks. we are already on 5 days of breaking up