I did 26 days no contact then folded. I’ve reset and am back to day 1. My intention is to get to 45 days no contact. from there I will send her a few small things I have here, with no note or message. just sending a few small belongings. then no more contact unless she initiates. then I will decide if I respond or not.
Last updated on:2025-08-28T05:07:07+05:30
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thanks for the responses. it helped a lot. 🙏
you’re giving yourself a plan so it doesn’t feel random. i’ve seen people hang onto little belongings longer than the person. giving them back without words is clean. the reset thing just means you care how you handle it.
it ok life happens 🫂
i get it. i remember staring at the no contact timer like it was my only anchor. i slipped too. it doesn’t erase the days you already made it through. sending the things back sounds fair, like closing a tiny piece of the door.
i tried that too. counted days like it was some game. folded after 3 weeks, felt stupid. sent her stuff back thinking it’d make me look calm. it didn’t change anything, just made me feel like i broke my own rules.