I found out he was cheating our whole 4 year relationship. I forgave him we moved to a new city new house I had a feeling something was still going on even tho he changed and let me see his phone and things like that. I always felt angry and found myself investigating. something wasn’t right I left him for a week to go to my mothers and after an argument he admitted he’s having a threesome at our house at that exact moment.im lost im hurt im 20 years old I know I shouldn’t be dealing with this. Im having trouble re building my life without him. it’s so hard
Last updated on:2025-08-30T04:07:19+05:30
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what stands out to me is how your gut kept telling you something was off, even after he tried to prove he was “changed.” you didn’t imagine it. you picked up on the truth before he admitted anything.
yes I will always trust my gut feeling from now on.
i was around your age when my ex messed around on me. i kept thinking i was too young to be dealing with all that and it was just crushing. it took me a while but being back at my mom’s place was what actually gave me space to start feeling safe again.
i remember when i caught mine cheating too. i was so mad at myself for even forgiving him in the first place. every time i thought about it i just felt stupid. i still remember the feeling in my chest like it was gonna explode.
I'm really sorry you went through that. It's understandable to feel lost and hurt.