How do I cope with him being with a new girl? doing the things I begged for and he does it for her first first. posting online with only me being the girl follower but still showing it for his I followers.
Last updated on:2025-10-07T02:15:04+05:30
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that’s so painful, i get it. do you feel like you’d want to block him completely, or is part of you still hoping he’ll notice you seeing it?
honestly, mute him. even if just for a bit. seeing that stuff slows down healing. it’s okay to protect your peace, even if it feels petty.
my ex did the same thing — all the things i used to ask for, he suddenly did for her. it felt like i was watching the version of him i wanted finally show up, just not for me. i had to remind myself it wasn’t about my worth, it was about his timing. still hurts tho
do not compare yourself to his new girl, stop checking his socials and focus on yourself. i know you would question why he did that to the new girl, stop thinking about it. instead of stalking his socials, try to find a new hobby or a new things to make yourself busy. it does not take away the pain instantly but it will make yourself busy. not to forget about the pain but it will make you focus on other things. but if you are hurting cry yourself out, feel the emotions and cry.
I recommend to not check their socials.
and remember they won’t post the bad times or when they have arguments. only the things they want to show, the illusion of a “perfect life”.
if you are the only girl follower maybe he wants to keep you there so you see what he’s doing.