Hey there, I'm New here. I just got of a complicated relationship. I would love to talk to someone about it. It was a relationship where I really put my everything into but haven't really gotten anything back unless I begged foe a long time. The hard part is that there are solutions to our problems but I cant be the only one working on our relationship and since there are solutions it's very hard for me ro let go. Maybe someone here knows the feeling and would be happy to chat about it.
Last updated on:2025-10-15T12:23:14+05:30
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just curious did you ever try talking openly about this with them, or was it always you trying to fix things alone?
i talked a lot. not like nagging, I just told him how I felt and what I needed to feel better. He knows that he treated me unfairly and that I deserve better, that's a bog part why we broke up. He know I deserve more, but he can't give it to me. After talking he always said that he was sorry, that he wants to make things better but in the end he never did.
i know it hurts letting go when solutions exist, but sometimes walking away is the only way to save your peace. focus on YOU for a bit
i gave EVERYTHING in a relationship too, begged for effort back, and still ended up drained. it sucks but it’s not your fault
The only advice i can give you in this situation, since i needed to learn that myself the hard way, is know your worth!!! You are worth more than having to beg for love, attention and respect! Best thing to do is cut that person off completely. And as hard as it seems, it is possible. You should focus on yourself and trust me when you’re happy again, with just yourself, that person will probably turn around and try to get in touch with you again. And than it’s your turn to decide if you’re gonna give this another chance or not.
focus on yourself darling I know for begged that triggered our emotions that's why the result of that. make time yourself exercise always. run for a mental break
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Im pretty sure that it wont happen again tbh. We have known each other over ten years and I think that's a reason why I Held on for so long. I know that he loves me and wants to make me happy but he is too much in his head. When I tried to talk to him about something it was instantly a fight...he would say that he is sorry but not change anything with the problem nor his communication.
And I truly know that I can be happier and I want to. But I just want to be happy with him. I want us to be happy together. I believe that he can change. on the other hand I stayed long enough but the feeling just doesn't go away...:/