So a week of no cantact has passed. I know that's for the best. I know that there is a reason that we broke up and I really couldn't do it anymore. And I know the no contact is best because he needs the time and if we would have contact we would just hurt each other.
And I am feeling free for most of the time since all that stress is gone. But the last few days I'm just feeling so empty. I wanna see him and talk to him and enjoy some time with each other. I think that it would be possible from my side but I know he needs more time. he said that we shouldn't text each other for at least 2 months.
I'm not really sad but there is someone thing weighting on my heart. I know that I just have to give this whole thing some time but it feels so unbearable. Just a week has passed but it feels so much longer and my hear is just longing for him...
Last updated on:2025-10-27T11:55:53+05:30
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have you been doing anything to keep your mind busy during no contact? even small distractions can make the longing feel a bit lighter.
actually I do. I talk to friends, go tp the gym, go to my University or just watching something on Netflix. Yesterday I felt so unmotivated and didn't do much tbh.
it’s okay to feel this emptiness. i found journaling my thoughts every day helped me release some of that weight instead of holding it in. little steps matter.
i did no contact too and felt “free” for a bit, but the longing hit me like a ton of bricks. it’s rough but it does get easier, promise
its the normal phase dear.
it will pass...this feeling will pass and you're strong