ever since i saw him for 3 days straight in a row, i haven’t seen him since. he stopped checking my profile 2 days ago and suddenly went silent. no reposts, no new follows, just dead silence remains.
is he moving on because i didn’t respond to his last message where he said we could be friends? did he think i walked away because i’m cutting ties with him? i’m so stupid, i should’ve responded at least. now it’s too late, he’s not coming back this time…i really miss him. if only he would communicate right with me instead of pulling away
Last updated on:2025-11-05T09:24:14+05:30
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yup going through same
did you want to stay friends with him
your last sentence is the same thing I’m thinking in my situation “if only he communicate with me instead of pulling away”… but I can’t control that. it’s his decision to not talk to me. :(
i’m sorry you’re going through the same thing. we all deserve someone who would choose us, talk to us
sometimes that silence isn’t about you. people pull away when they’re processing or trying to detach. try not to fill the silence with “what ifs it’s so easy to blame yourself, but it’s rarely that simple.
he is coming back trust me he is trying to punish u it’s what the do they always come back usually after a month
really?. is he seeing if i’d reach out the moment he suddenly goes silent?
@Shiro how long have u really gone no contact with him? based on my experience and my friends guys who are used to you always coming back always come back after u really stay no contact for a long time. my ex is a narcissist so I really don’t want him back and im blocking and really going no contact and for him leaving me alone finally. but they always Hoover thier way back it usually takes a month but some are a bit more peristent and can take up to 3 but it’s rare.
@Lilith 10 days. last time was 2 weeks. he broke it then pulled away again. my ex is also a bit of a narcissistic and egocentric so i doubt it’ll take him a short time to come back for real
i remember when my ex suddenly went quiet like that too, after saying “let’s be friends.” the silence was LOUD. i kept checking everything, hoping for a sign. it’s brutal when you don’t get closure
exactly. like you don’t know what they’re up to. you can only assume that they’re trying to move on