I'm in an unhealthy relationship since 3 years

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He's controling and makes me feel less
maybe he's too insecure he doesn't trust me and wants to control me but I cannot be controlled by him so he makes me feel guilty about it he's abusive he abuse my character and sometimes torture me mentally to do what he wants me to do

Last updated on:2025-11-12T13:20:58+05:30

Comments (5)

leavehope
leavehope 4 mths ago

does he ever admit what he’s doing, or does he twist it back on you every time you call it out?

Selfless
Selfless 4 mths ago

he blamed me for everything

In2pain
In2pain 4 mths ago

when someone keeps trying to break your confidence to feel powerful, that’s not something you can fix. what usually helps me is reminding myself i’m not crazy for wanting peace.

Blindfaith
Blindfaith 4 mths ago

my ex used to do that too act like my independence was a threat to him. he’d guilt trip me just for saying no. it took me a while to realize that wasn’t love, it was control disguised as care.

WildSun457
WildSun457 4 mths ago

it’s good that you can see the reality. you have the power to stay there or to leave. you don’t deserve to be in an unhealthy relationship.