do they come back

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2 weeks of no contact.
so i noticed that he went completely silent just like me. he stopped checking my profile. it was the only last thread of connection and it’s gone now. i feel disappointed. do they come back and reach out after constantly checking then going silent?

Last updated on:2025-11-19T06:23:30+05:30

Comments (8)

Wamaxman
Wamaxman 3 mths ago

do you feel like you want him to come back, or are you more hurt by losing that last bit of attention? both can be true, just wanna understand.

Shiro
Shiro 3 mths ago

the latter. it gives me a dopamine hit and shows that he cares enough to check

Stillbroken
Stillbroken 3 mths ago

i had to remind myself that silence doesn’t mean the story’s over. people pull back for all kinds of reasons. i tried to focus on what i actually needed instead of reading into their patterns.

Shiro
Shiro 3 mths ago

you’re right. i’m hoping that’s true

ChillPals137
ChillPals137 3 mths ago

My ex took 5 months to come back to me... and I took him again... We dated t for like 3 months and broke up again... He came back to me again after another 3 months... I took him back... We dated again for like 3 weeks and broke up... and in case he comes back I'm not going to take him again...

Shiro
Shiro 3 mths ago

it must have been exhausting for you. i’m sorry you had to go through that

swipetho
swipetho 3 mths ago

when i went no contact with my ex, he used to stalk everything, then suddenly stopped. that silence hit me like a punch. it’s wild how losing that tiny thread hurts more than the breakup sometimes

Shiro
Shiro 3 mths ago

i feel you. it was the only bit of connection i had with him. now it’s gone and it hurts like hell