I think I'm more scared that I'll never find someone that likes me, when I like them. I'm scared that I'm too ugly, mentally ill to find someone again. I don't think I miss them really, but miss the feeling of being chosen, even if they chose to discard me.
Last updated on:2025-12-04T09:29:55+05:30
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do you feel like this started after the breakup, or were these fears kinda there even before?
never before actually lol, I was very confident and fine being single. My fault in the relationship, was that I started losing myself and my own independence, because I wanted to pull them closer. I'm also mourning the lost of the old person I used to be.
i get why you feel like that, but those thoughts usually show up when we’re hurting, not because they’re true. when i felt this way, i tried to just be gentle with myself for a while.
I'm trying to, but its hard with other issues in my life
i was “unlovable” after my ex tossed me aside like i didn’t matter. i wasn’t even missing him, just the feeling of being wanted. it messed with my head so bad.
your not alone trust me. i feel like this all the time. i wouldn’t be the one to say it gets better, but let’s both hope it does.
I hope so, for all of us