I found out he shared about our issue with his friend, I have never liked that friend of him. So it bothered me and felt like disrespect that he did that. I tried talking to him but he doesn't think there's any problem with it. But it broke me. It hurt me.
Last updated on:2026-01-10T19:56:10+05:30
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did he realize how much it hurt you when you told him, or is he just brushing it off completely?
he kinda brushed it off and completely ignored my feelings
that hurt makes total sense. sometimes people don’t see boundaries the same way we do. honoring your feelings and stepping back helps protect your heart
my ex used to vent to his friends about stuff i told him in confidence and it broke me every time feeling disrespected cuts deep.
yeah my trust on him has broken and I've been thinking about what kinda stuff he's been sharing with his friend about us.
honey, in fact, it doesn’t matter whether the problem is objective or not, if it makes you uncomfortable, your person will do everything to make you feel better. perhaps he simply doesn't perceive your feelings, or doesn’t understand how much it hurts you. maybe try to talk to him again and emphasize that it did hurt you, if he doesn't show any care, then maybe he's not the one who worths explaining
stay strong