it's possible I m wrong and he is not even thinking about me
but I think he is waiting for me to break no contact near valentine
because I always do that
we were no contact for i think 7 days and I broke it around our 10 year anniversary
may be he is thinking same
or maybe he just don't care
whatever it may be I just hope I keep it together
it's been 49 days of no contact and I feel if I break it he will only laugh
I hope I stay strong
Last updated on:2026-02-03T01:52:03+05:30
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when you imagine breaking no contact and him laughing, what do you think hurts more there, the rejection or the feeling of losing control again?
49 days is NOT nothing. that’s real strength, even if it doesn’t feel like it right now.
i used to always be the one who broke no contact around anniversaries or holidays too. every time i convinced myself they were waiting, thinking about me the same way. turns out i was just stuck in the pattern, not the connection. that hope vs reality gap hurt like hell.
if he wanted to he’d reach out. don’t let him do that to you.
stay strong
if he wants you, then he I am sure he'll be the one to break the no contact . dont do it if you feel like he's gonna laugh. it will feel like a disrespect to yourself
No... If he wants your presence, then he's the one who should come to you. He knows his way to you, it's cruel if he expects you to go back begging on your knees for scraps of attention from him, please save yourself some dignity.