A girl in my class has been in a relationship with her boyfriend since 2019, making it almost 7 years together by 2026. However, I checked her boyfriend's following list today and noticed many girls from our school in it. I am confused because after being together for 7 years, seeing him follow many school girls makes me wonder if he is loyal or not, as it feels suspicious."
Last updated on:2026-02-18T22:26:11+05:30
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is he interacting with them in a way that feels disrespectful, or is it just the follow list that’s bothering you? and has she ever mentioned feeling uneasy about him before?
social media can look worse than it is. following doesn’t always mean flirting.
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i dated someone too and i’d randomly check his following and see a bunch of new girls. it made my stomach DROP. sometimes it wasn’t cheating, but it still triggered my insecurity so bad
I'm with my bf for 7 years, and I saw his watch history on tiktok with pretty and sexy girls. He watched it multiple times as I saw in the history, and for 7 years that was the first time it happened. I was shocked, hurt and i felt so insecure. Until now I am so confused, after 7 years why now? I don't know what to do, and lately I can feel that he is already distant to me.
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