I find it that I want to talk about him all the timeee. Even if it's shit talking about him so other people find the conversation interesting. I still do it to keep the conversation about him. I'll say embarrassing things, bring up weird stories etc just to get to talk about him as all my friends are sick of hearing love stuff about him. But they listen when im being mean. I use every opportunity to talk about him. Do you guys do that too?
Last updated on:2026-02-17T15:27:48+05:30
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I find this happening as well, one of the reasons I've become reclusive which is not good for me or anyone
do you feel weirdly empty when you’re not talking about him? like the conversation dies and you panic a little
yesss! exactly how I feel
for me it was less about shit talking and more about not knowing who i was without the drama. silence felt scarier than obsessing.
i did that. i’d act like i was over him but somehow every story circled back to him. even the embarrassing stuff. i think i just wanted him to still feel… relevant? like if i kept talking about him, he wasn’t fully gone
yeah,
Oh yes, in the early stages it's stronger than us, we always want to talk about it, even I'm still in that phase.
if you refer to this specific need to talk to other about him/her, yeap, cu this is like a " emotional attachment"... but I just try to do so with really close friends.