I reached 200 days of no contact on Valentine's day. Danggg I was tempted the whole day to share an Instagram note with an indirect for him but I didn't at the end. But god knows how much I was tempted.
Last updated on:2026-02-18T23:23:30+05:30
Why i didn't reach out on valentine's after 200 days apart
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if you had posted that note and he saw it, what were you hoping would happen?
I dunno. Expose myself at the end would put me on a vulnerable position. Cause if he takes the hint and do nothing may increase his ego like "oh yeah I broke her heart and even all this time she still thinks of me" and if he would've do something like text me (very unlikely tho) he wouldn't learn nothing because again, I would had to do something in order for him to take responsibility of what he had done to me. And honestly, I refuse to repeat the nasty cicle once more
200 days on VALENTINE’S DAY?? that’s no joke. i remember hitting a milestone on a holiday and the urge to post a petty little indirect was soooo loud i swear i typed it out three times. the temptation is real.
For reaaal, it feels like withdrawal syndrome. The impulse driven by sadness. It was hard to deal with.
Proud of you stranger <3
thank you stranger <33
I know the feelings