I texted him last night. He told me he'd be there to support me if I needed him. I told him I was feeling bad and needed someone to talk to, and he called me. The call helped cheer me up a bit. He told me that after the breakup he tried to date girls but that he couldn't after me.He could feel the feeling and regret of losing me. Same thing, I tried to have something with someone but I found out another day that this guy while he was going out with me also went out with his ex and they had s*x.
I'm at the lowest point of my life right now, and I don't know if what I've done will only make my situation worse.
Last updated on:2026-03-09T18:31:03+05:30
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after that call did you feel even a tiny bit calmer… or did it leave you spinning with more hope and questions than before?
when i was that low, i had to stop leaning on my ex for comfort. every call pulled the wound open again.
after my breakup i kept talking to my ex too, those late night calls where she say she regret losing you… it gave me hope for a minute, then left me even more confused the next day.
I'm sorry you're going thru that, that kind of anxiety and having to wait is so terrorizing. and i know it's awful but you have absolutely no obligation to answer their texts if it makes you feel this way. obviously entirely up to you, but if it hurts this bad to have them contact you, that's also partially allowing them to have control back. healing is the furthest thing from a straight line, or like a test with right answers to choose. you have a friend here if you need one, we are all on this app for a reason and can mostly understand the pain we are all going thru. Just dont go crazy with the anxiety anticipation this week and keep moving forward for you 🧡
reset your no contact days, take today to distance yourself again before you get attached again, and see how you feel in a week maybe? if you haven't needed to reach out or he hasn't reached out, you have your answer. keep your head up, keep moving forward, and know you're not alone in your feelings friend
My ex texted me today. I replied, but didn't continue the conversation. I'd like to cut off contact with the current guy too. The problem is, I found out what he did with his ex from a friend, because he confided in him. So I can't tell him I know what he did and end things, but I have to wait for him to tell me. I'll inevitably hear from him in the next few days, and that will make me even more upset