We’ve been together for 2 years and 5 months in a long distance relationship. We still met eachother but not that often because he always got some excuses. At the end we fought alot and barely talked to eachother. A month ago (12.02.2026) I texted him and apologized for everything just to get a message like this: I’m sorry but I lost feelings two months ago. Quick reminder I felt so lonley in that time even though he still was with me. So I added other (boy) friends online. Not to make him jelous or to replace him. No, I just needed some people to clear my mind. I met them randomly and it worked. Me and my friends played online games together and this was my first time in a while I actually had fun again and could laugh. I just liked them as friends and there would never be more. Well and so did he. The diffrence between my boy friends and his girl friends was that his friends were local. So he started texting with that one girl and I guess he started catching feelings for her. She went to the same gym as him so they also met eachother. More than we did. I didn’t even know until he told me 2 months ago. He said that he would forgive me and that I should forget him but I can’t. How can u lose that fast feelings for some1 you’ve been together for almost 2 and a half year? My intentions were never to met some1 else I just felt so lonely. He also told me that he will block me when he got with some1 else and 2 weeks after our break up he did block me. He also targeted this girl in his insta bio w a heart. So you’re telling me He got together with a girl he barely know 2 weeks ago we broke up? After a 2 years relationship? I don’t get it. While he is happy with that girl. Im siting here all by myself and suffering in silence. I told my mom and friends and it helped a lot but it’s not enough. As soon as Im alone Im not feeling good. 2 days ago I fainted because of the stress and pain. even the doctor said its because of my heartbreak. How could you just leave me like that? Even after a month of no contact Im feeling horrible and you are just happy with your new girlfriend? It’s not fair. For everyone who is actually reading that: thank you. I know the text might be a little messy but so am I right now and it describes my feelings pretty well.
Last updated on:2026-03-19T03:05:02+05:30
Comments (9)
i’m really sorry it got so heavy you even fainted. are you still talking to your friends or your mom when those waves hit, or do you mostly keep it inside when you’re alone
Well sometimes but not everytime. When those waves hit Im trying to write everything down what comes to my mind and it helps me a little bit.
i hear how lonely those last months were for you. one thing that helped me when my ex jumped into someone new was forcing myself to keep talking to friends and doing small things outside the house, even when i wanted to disappear.
Im working on that rn
my long distance ex did something similar, started getting close to someone local while i was still trying to hold the relationship together. finding out she moved on that fast makes you feel like the whole time meant nothing, even though you know it did
yeah. He hurted my feelings so much and this kinda sounds rude but Im js hoping for karma and that he will regret his decision with the other girl and me
hey i know how it is totally a body thing when ur heartbroken. please take care of yourself. LDRs are super tough that way cos you arent physically there. I know how ur feeling but u know im gonna say something that is going to sound crazy a bit... it is also about the texts that are not coming in... to talk to someone or text and be constantly on the phone and suddenly its gone. It does sometimes work like an addiction too. Im not saying what you had was not true but the fact that it became a compulsive kinda thing where ur primary relationship is via the phone and so its a double edged sword. think about that too. maybe it will help u sort your thoughts out. sending hugss
Sounds right to me. Right now Im trying to focus on myself and distract myself with other things.
@clawmarkzs feel better soon