Did we ruin our friendship by falling in love?

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sometimes when everything ends, you miss the friendship you had with the person. The fun memories and the familiarity you had with that person. You miss the way you guys knew each other and at this point you feel like the friendship phase would have been better without framing it as love. I am 19 and I feel like giving a love tag without knowing if you are really in love gets messy. you guys are really good friends and at a time things get physical and just because of that you think it's love but at the end I think it's just a friendship that got messed up because of other feelings. I just don't understand how you can mess up a platonic friendship suddenly. Is it because there's no control?

Last updated on:2026-04-29T23:47:02+05:30

Comments (5)

darkside
darkside 1 hr ago

it was actually love at any point, or more like closeness and comfort that got confused with it?

dyana03
dyana03 7 hrs ago

it was actually love at any point, or more like closeness and comfort that got confused with it?

lasytwirl
lasytwirl 6 hrs ago

That's exactly my confusion. I can't say if it's love. Maybe it was closeness and comfort.

RimiVough
RimiVough 10 hrs ago

i had a friendship turn into something more and when it ended i didn’t just lose a partner, i lost my person too. that part really HURT more than the breakup itself.

lasytwirl
lasytwirl 6 hrs ago

so true, losing the friendship bond u had will hurt the most