Is it bad to want my ex to regret seeing me at the gym?

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Am I crazy to go to the gym at the same time as my ex just to run into him ?

I know when he goes since we go to the same gym I wanted him to se me and making him regret a bit more.
I would act like I didn't know he was there and ignore him but idk why I'm making this guys
He can't move on I'm sorry He can't Forget me

Is it bad to want my ex to regret seeing me at the gym?

Last updated on:2026-04-28T20:54:03+05:30

Comments (13)

Swanfeather
Swanfeather yesterday

you actually want to heal and move on, or do you still want him to feel something for you even if it keeps you tied to him

AurevoirToi
AurevoirToi yesterday

Not a great idea, stalking isn't normal and shouldn't be encouraged. Just don't do it , move on .

Zeyneb
Zeyneb yesterday

Totally understand what you mean! but it's not stalking I go to the same gym as him it's been 6 months and I go 3 Times a week so I don't go there to Watch him I just do my stuff and I wanted to deep him kinda one last time since he left me by messages like a coward I don't know if you get it! but I know I shouldn't do that

Zeyneb
Zeyneb yesterday

@Zeyneb see*

Zeyneb
Zeyneb yesterday

do you speak French I think that because of your username ?

stillsad
stillsad 2 days ago

i get why you want him to see you and regret it, i really do.

Zeyneb
Zeyneb yesterday

Thank you for the support !! It feels good to fell understand I just wanted him to see me one last time at least before I disapear

travelluv
travelluv 2 days ago

i did this exact thing, changed my whole schedule just to “accidentally” run into him and act unbothered 😭 it felt powerful for like 5 minutes, then i went home and still felt stuck on him. that pull is REAL.

Zeyneb
Zeyneb yesterday

thank youuu !! I feel not alone 😭I understand I Will feel the same way for sure I made myselft think that I need to do this at least 1 time so he sees me so that's the last souvenir from me

Jeyjey
Jeyjey 2 days ago

i feel you should not let him see u just make him curious about you for a while

Zeyneb
Zeyneb yesterday

I understand your opinion so much!! I did this with my socials! totaly left them so he doesn't have any hint of me or any news from me but I think I wanted to give him a last memory of my face. Idk if it's weird I think I need it ? but I think it's gonna hurt too

HappyHour406
HappyHour406 2 days ago

probably not a great idea because you’ll go and all you want is his attention and there’s a very real chance you won’t get it and that will hurt more

Zeyneb
Zeyneb yesterday

I get your opinion! I think what I want is not his attention but the fact that he will see me and that he Will remember that I existed. One last time maybe I need this.