Why can't i move on from him?

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I guess everything stops here. He told me he doesn't like me anymore. I still hope I can make him love me again and honestly I want to. Its so hard I don't wanna move on

Last updated on:2026-06-15T02:38:03+05:30

Comments (13)

bluewater
bluewater 4 wks ago

i spent months trying to be more lovable after someone told me their feelings were gone, and it just left me exhausted and heartbroken. 💔

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 4 wks ago

Yes I get the feeling but I'm gonna try to be better for myself and yeah I still hope we can get back together but I'm gonna change for myself not for him 😞

Strawberry1
Strawberry1 4 wks ago

did he actually say why his feelings changed, or was it just a sudden "i don't like you anymore" and that was it?

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 4 wks ago

He said it was over time he completely lost feelings like he had doubts about liking me when we were still together. I asked what it was and he said it was mainly the relationship's health. I know it wasn't going well between us in the end but I still like him

nomondem
nomondem 4 wks ago

He means it . Accept, heal and move on

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 4 wks ago

I know he does. But I miss him

JoyfulHome346
JoyfulHome346 4 wks ago

It shouldn't be a problem to get someone to love you, especially to love you again. This should happen naturally, and it does as soon as you love yourself 100%. I understand your thoughts so soon after the breakup, but we need to learn to accept instead of trying to change other people's feelings.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 4 wks ago

I know I should move on but I don't know how :( especially since he wants distance again for a bit

JoyfulHome346
JoyfulHome346 4 wks ago

@Inotnoya Unfortunately, there are no instructions for this. What you should do is actively and consciously engage with yourself... books and activities help me personally. A hobby, new places, things like that <3

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 4 wks ago

@JoyfulHome346 its so hard I miss being with him all the time

JoyfulHome346
JoyfulHome346 4 wks ago

@Inotnoya of course you do, but trust me you'll get used to it

EasyBreezy747
EasyBreezy747 4 wks ago

focus on yourself

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 4 wks ago

I don't know how