Why can't i move on after a week of silence?

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Almost a week since we last talked and I barely eat now but I know he will come back so its kinda crazy... But well he said he just wanted to stay friends so if he comes back he'll probably only want to stay friends and it hurts cuz I don't wanna move on
Deep down I still hope he will want more and I hope we can restart as a better version of ourselves

Last updated on:2026-06-11T14:19:45+05:30

Comments (12)

ItsNotEasy
ItsNotEasy 22 hrs ago

my ex told me we'd be freinds..and that honestly gave me hope but she killed that hope with her new boyfriend who's too insecure and she's blocked me on everything.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 16 hrs ago

Well actually I thought he had someone else but rn I don't think thats the case, we still talked and he NEVER said anything to answer my question about us staying friends or maybe getting back together..maybe I'm delusional but I made it clear in the message I sent him so yeah if he didn't answer, I'm taking it as a "idk yet"

queenoo
queenoo 2 days ago

i spent months convincing myself he'd come back wanting more, and every day without a text felt like i was surviving on hope alone. that space between "maybe" and "no" was brutal

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 2 days ago

I know its not a good idea to think this way but I cant help it I just want us to continue even if I should understand that he probably doesn't want more anymore

flyhigh
flyhigh 2 days ago

i was treating his words seriously, even when my heart wanted a different story. when he said he only wanted friendship, i stopped building my future around the version of him i wished would return.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 2 days ago

I would like to ba able to do this exact thing but I cant 😞

4evaA
4evaA 2 days ago

the future you thought the two of you were going to have together?

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 2 days ago

probably but rn I feel like he doesn't care about this at all

CozyBabe197
CozyBabe197 2 days ago

i broke up with him a day ago and i’ve had trouble eating even before it. i’m hoping that gets better for you. part of me wants him to come back in a few months so i can feel like i acc did mean smth to him.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 2 days ago

thank you ❤️ I hope it will get better too
and me too I need him to come back

BlazeFlick359
BlazeFlick359 2 days ago

mine messaged me the ither day i told myslef not to reply and i did it i regret it she made it worse and started arguing and told me about her new boyfriend

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 2 days ago

She started arguing? over what? like because you didn't reply?