It’s officially day 90, and our 3 months are up.
I’m petrified.
When he broke up with me, he was very apologetic. He hinted towards wanting something again in the future, and didn’t want to fully shut the door on our relationship.
I knew that I wouldn’t be able to move forward unless we fully cut ties while I had time to process the breakup, so I asked for 3 months of no contact. I do not regret it one bit, and am extremely proud of myself for setting that boundary and prioritizing my emotional needs. I used to get sooo hung up on guys to the point where it was just super unhealthy. I’d compare it to Leslie Knope and Mark Brandanowits level of bad. If you’ve seen Parks and Rec, you understand exactly where I’m coming from (also sidenote, be my friend).
But now that our official no contact period is ending, im petrified.
I think I still have feelings for him, and I am eventually going to tell him when I feel secure. I was never honest about how I felt about him while we were going out, and I’d like to get it off my chest at least once.
But for now, I’m scared to lose this 3 month security blanket. I’m scared to confront all this. I’m scared to potentially confront him.
I’m just scared.
Last updated on:2026-07-27T10:24:11+05:30
Comments (3)
hitting the end of no contact and feeling like the safety i built for myself was about to disappear overnight. i’m really proud of you for choosing yourself when it was probably the hardest thing to do
first of all, u did a very great job! proud of u! i think that u are moved away from him so u don’t want him back and that’s why u are petrify but u also don’t want to close the door because u have also great memories and moments shared w this person
it's really good you managed to do those 3 months!! it gave you time to think about everything, i hope it will all go well now