Why am i breaking no contact again?

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I am about to break no contact. I need to know if he thinks we can still get back together. I know it can sound stupid for some but I swear its not for me I need a genuine answer cuz I NEED to know

Last updated on:2026-06-12T03:31:09+05:30

Comments (11)

KiwiLOve
KiwiLOve 11 hrs ago

i get why you're tempted. for me, i had to ask myself if i was ready for every possible answer, especially the one i didn't want. that question alone stopped me from texting a few times.

DueForm4
DueForm4 17 hrs ago

has he actually given you any signs that getting back together is on the table, or is the silence what's making your mind fill in the blanks?

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 15 hrs ago

I actually don't know, Idk if he still likes me (even if I think so but I'm not in his head so I can't know) right now we just started talking again after a week of no contact so its still weird AND he didn't answer the question.. he answered everything in my message BUT this

hummingrose
hummingrose 21 hrs ago

i broke no contact because i felt like i couldn't move forward without an answer, and honestly the waiting was eating me alive. that NEED to know feeling is so real.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 17 hrs ago

EXACTLY and he didn't give me an answer at all when the message was 2 big paragraphs so very noticeable....I'm guessing he doesn't know himself but we actually yapped for a bit so we never know what might happen

ItsNotEasy
ItsNotEasy 23 hrs ago

my ex took a "break" from me and started sleeping with a new dude the same day. I assume your situation is different but id definitely still recommend giving it more time.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 17 hrs ago

Thats actually crazy wtf? but I didn't give it mor time because of our mutual friends actually...they always choose him so yeah I'm alone and in order to enjoy and heal I need support so....

ItsNotEasy
ItsNotEasy 4 hrs ago

@Inotnoya I understand that does make it tuff. maybe its time to make some new friends? not saying you cant hang out with those ones just a suggestion.

DashFire480
DashFire480 yesterday

I would advise to give it time. and give it a few more weeks

Prudence
Prudence yesterday

you don't need to know anything baby
if he wanted that he would have reached out to you

Inotnoya
Inotnoya yesterday

I mean we broke up a week ago so we needed time but now I need this answer:(