What to do when you share friends after a breakup

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We have the same friends and we play the same games. I genuinely don't know what to do when I'm alone cuz all I can do is remember the moments we shared so I'm not enjoying my own company anymore...
We're in no contact so we cant play together but its hard for me because well I miss him

Last updated on:2026-06-11T14:21:08+05:30

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DashFire480
DashFire480 24 hrs ago

me and my ex situationship had the same friend group and a whole fan club. and they were more his friends than mine. at end of that break up… they just excluded me and never asked how I was doing. while kept him in the circle. it was pretty painful. but I just kept around my closest friends. and leaned into those friendships more. that weren’t part of the group.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 16 hrs ago

thats exactly what is happening and tbh I don't feel hurt they're choosing him...I was hurt he didn't ask if I wanted to join so I asked myself andddd he said yes so I guess its fine now 🙏 hope you're feeling better tho

moonlight
moonlight 2 days ago

finding one thing that was just mine, one game, one hobby, one little routine that had nothing to do with them. i needed somewhere my brain couldn't immediately drag me back to us.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 2 days ago

I'm trying this but I showed him EVERYTHING that was a part of my life and thats why I cant stop thinking about us

8BB50
8BB50 2 days ago

you miss having your person to play with and share your day with? sometimes those felt really different for me.

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 2 days ago

Yep I miss him I miss sharing things with him, I miss enjoying things with him and thats why I'm this delulu and hope he'll come back but idk

sakasiru
sakasiru 2 days ago

my ex and i shared the same friend group and the same games, and every time i logged on it felt like i was walking straight into old memories. the silence after talking every day was the part that got me

Inotnoya
Inotnoya 2 days ago

Thats whats happening to me rn I wanna be with them but I can't because of no contact

JoyfulGood956
JoyfulGood956 2 days ago

I lost a lot of my friends the same way and I’m learning to lean on those I still have and to be content with myself without others to distract me from my true feelings

BlipDot685
BlipDot685 2 days ago

I know exactly what you are feeling.