i just found out that my ex got close with my other ex that i was with 2.5 years, that hates me and made lies about me.
Now i don't know anymore what to think. I know that my ex of 2.5 years before the last one still tries to make me look like a bad guy and that she never got over me even after 2 years, and now my last ex that broke up with me 35 days ago started hanging out with her?
My last ex hates my previous one, saying how she looks bad, behaves bad and overall seems like a mentally unstable girl which she is. Now they are friends and idk what's happening anymore. For more context check my previous posts
Last updated on:2026-06-11T20:50:32+05:30
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has your last ex actually done anything that makes you think they're talking about you together, or is it mostly the shock of seeing two people you never expected to connect?
it's just the shock of seeing them connect, i connected the dots and most likely they met each other and had drinks together and whatever.
i couldn't control the conversations happening behind my back.🥺
i understand, but i still think that the truth comes out sooner or later.
My first ex that is friend with my last ex now tried everything to make me seem like a bad, insecure and abusive, and while everyone believed her for some time, after like 1 to 1.5 years everything came out and everyone knew she lied.
That's why i couldn't believe my last ex befriending her despite knowing that she would do anything to f*** me up and that she still isn't over me even after 2 years?
I guess that they both now talk about me and that's keeping their friendship alive lol.
my ex and someone who used to talk badly about me suddenly became friends after the breakup, and it made me question EVERYTHING. it felt less about their friendship and more about feeling like people were rewriting the story of who i was.
yeah they do it to cope, but if you grow while they focus on you then you're winning while the only thing keeping their friendship alive is wishing bad for you.
I’m in a similar situation of gossip creating false narratives but you know what? if someone doesn’t want the whole story they aren’t worth it
i guess you're right but my last ex hated her and now they follow each other?
And she tried to get me arrested by lying.
i'm not sure how to feel about whole situation
@BraveSpirit745 respect the fact that they have autonomy to do their own thing and focus on yourself
@PureMoodswings how to focus on myself if they try to sabotage me together