so basically there's this guy and I love him so much and we've been on and off a couple times and my friends see him as this evil guy and say he's bad and I think its just a version they made up in their heads because of their hate to him because he's as bad as they make him sound anyway yesterday at colly they took my phone so I wouldn't message him (mind u I was at peace and me and him are friends) and they ran and kept my phone from me while the others message him on their phones and tell him to leave me alone and not look at me and he said he has moved on and stuff and asked why they were speaking for me and why I couldn't talk to him myself (the reason we broke up was because he thought I didn't speak enough) and honestly I was fine with him moving on but I still love him and wanted to move on at my pace but I feel like them doing that and trying to block him was forcing me to move on and it honestly hurt and I told them how I felt but they said it was for my own good but as friends I'd rather them just be there for me when he puts me through whatever and before this I was slowly moving on anyway but they wouldn't hear me out anyway after they message I broke down and got my phone back and messaged him to ignore whatever they said and that they dont speak for me and he left me on opened and I feel so shitty now and whatever peace I had with the situation and him has gone and a piece of me hoped he see that I love him for him and will come back but yh idk what to do and honestly that whole situation hurt me more than what he's put me through
Last updated on:2026-06-11T23:21:13+05:30
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i had friends try to "save" me from an ex once and all it did was make me feel like nobody trusted me to make my own choices. i was already trying to let go, but having it forced on me made me cling harder for a while.
i get why you're upset. honestly, what helped me was separating the hurt from my friends and the hurt from the guy, because they weren't the same thing. one was about feeling controlled, the other was about someone i still wanted choosing to stay gone
before your friends stepped in, were you actually feeling at peace with him moving on, or was there still a part of you waiting for him to come back?
I mean Ig both part of me was slowly moving on and at peace but a bit of me still hoped he'd come back