Feeling stuck after a breakup: why can't i move on?

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it's been 16 months and I'm stuck! she's moved on and I'm still picking up the pieces

Last updated on:2026-06-12T06:14:10+05:30

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goldenarleen

it takes time, stop listening to sad music. get into religion (if it’s your thing if not that’s your choice), start new shows and real new novels and get hobbies to take your mind off her

nomondem
nomondem 11 hrs ago

Why say stuck ? Healing takes time and sometimes moving on is not easy

kingofharts
kingofharts yesterday

the thing is I'm learning to move forward! but from time to time I still think about her

GlimmerDash105
GlimmerDash105 3 days ago

That stings. just know you’re not alone some of us get stuck so much longer than needed.

darkthinker
darkthinker 3 days ago

when you say you're stuck, is there one thing you keep coming back to, missing her, what happened, or the future you thought you were going to have together?

kingofharts
kingofharts 2 days ago

shes moved on and im stuck picking up the pieces

resetting2
resetting2 3 days ago

16 months is a long time to hurt.😢

VoMUA
VoMUA 3 days ago

i was over a year out too and watching my ex move forward while i was still carrying the wreckage around.

BlazeFlick359
BlazeFlick359 3 days ago

same with me